Bye Bye 2013 Hello 2014
Yes this post is as cliche as the title is. I always think that a year end post is a must to wrap up the happenings of the year and yes I always end up highlighting all the significant events of which most are good ones. This year's post is however gonna be more meaningful. If there are any younger readers of mine out there I hope this serves at least as some form of inspiration for you as I touch on my love and career life as well.
CAREER
So I was as of the start of the year currently on my first job after graduation; which I was offered even before I graduated. Good pay; took the job. This year was going relatively smoothly whilst I completed a few significant projects within my role but things took a turn, faced obstacles and decided that it was time to reconsider a new job switch and a switch in a whole new industry altogether. Bottomline is; when I was first faced with the obstacle I was shocked and I didn't know how to handle it. Knowing I had to look at a job switch, I was lost because I didnt go through it after I graduated like most people; it was literally my first job hunt. But I didnt give up and whilst transiting to my new job I helped out with an event to earn some extra moolah, experience and pass my time. Right now I'm still adapting to my new work environment so I will not go into saying how it was an amazing opportunity etc. BUT I just want to send a message out to never give up despite facing an obstacle in life and you never know when a switch might just be for the better. In some people's life, they lose their jobs and get depressed; thinking about how they're gonna support their family and carry on their lifestyle etc and sadly some even suicide. Please never be so negative. If you lose something, you pick yourself up and search for it. Suffering a pay cut and starting from scratch is not a shameful thing; it is shameful only if you sit back and do nothing about; waiting for fortune to strike. You make your own destiny. =]
LOVE
Yup as of November this year I was once again sexy free and single after being in a relationship for two whole years, my longest relationship to date; not that I've had many btw before you start judging me =p Our relationship wasnt smooth sailing but he decided to end it just as I came back from my Japan vacation and in the middle of my career transition. Honestly I was quite upset because too much was changing at one time. I was just picking myself up from a job switch and now I have to handle a relationship breakdown. I've always been a person who hated change and had to have everything planned out. So this was a rather huge blow to me because I didnt expect my boyfriend (ex) to decide to end things then; I had expected him to at least support through my career transition but oh well. Yes I was rather pissed and to think in my head things were gonna work out fine; we were gonna apply for a flat get married have kids blah blah. So girls please do not ever get depressed over a guy. I didnt shed a single tear. Yes it was frustrating and I simply hated having to answer to friends and family over the change in relationship status. Life goes on. Now I'm devoting more time and effort to building up my new career and spending a lot of time on family (and I admit a bit of unhealthy fangirling) but hey now there isnt a guy who gets jealous everytime the name "Eunhyuk" appears. (do not ask me why but all boyfriends seemed to have something against him and no one else despite my close contact with other male artists)
FAMILY
I love my family. There is nothing not to love about my family. I have like the coolest parents and the nicest brother (when we are not fighting haha) We watched Super Show 5 together; I have priority booking so I decided to make it a family affair...again. Anyway I guess the main highlight on this section would be our self-planned Japan trip!!! It didnt go smoothly but hell its Japan <3 enjoy="" facebook:="" on="" p="" pictures="">
https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10153390127670635.1073741830.789775634&type=3
Basically I just wanted to say; I LOVE MY FAMILY. They will always be there for you.
FANGIRLING
Yes it is an unhealthy part of my life. Haha. I'm not going to go into details because the links are all there on the left side of this page. My boss who supports his daughters' kpop obsession was telling me he thinks its fine to have something you are passionate about apart from school and work so yaye this is just a small part of me that keeps me happy =] My annual concert with priority booking took place again this year in July; Super Show 5. It sucked. And then I finally saw the 14th out of 15 members of Super Junior, yes it is Mr Kim Kibum. I won tickets to his fanmeet from 987FM so I was a happy girl =] Cause stingy me refused to pay so much for a boring event of one man haha. My next concert was Infinite OGS and fck it was good. I got some loving from most of the events especially Kim Myungsoo. It was a wow. It took place in the middle of my career switch when I was having a little down side in my life. I had a pimple outbreak and was feeling insecure being one of the oldest in the audience haha. L really cheered me up that night =] Last fangirling episode definitely has to be Shane Filan. I believe the whole world knows about my Westlife obsession by now haha so getting to have a comfortable dinner with him and enjoying the feeling of being a friend instead of a fan just felt amazing. Also the appearance in his video just put the cherry on top of the cake.
To end off this post: I was never one to believe in Feng Shui or horoscope readings etc but I've been having a rather bad year this year; which was predicted for one who was born in the year of the Snake so....BUT 2014 is expected to be a much better year for us so I'm hoping it is so hehe....I want my luck back! haha anyway; make the best out of whatever is given to you =]
Ok so now I'm off to welcome 2014 with my last fangirling event of the year....RAIN!!!!!!
I have been crazy over his dance abilities since his debut. God knows how many of his songs I've danced to. So I'm off to the concert now, wishing everyone a HAPPY NEW YEAR! Hope this post has been somewhat motivational or inspiring for you guys....Phoebe Feehily signing off for the final time in 2013 now...CIAO!
CAREER
So I was as of the start of the year currently on my first job after graduation; which I was offered even before I graduated. Good pay; took the job. This year was going relatively smoothly whilst I completed a few significant projects within my role but things took a turn, faced obstacles and decided that it was time to reconsider a new job switch and a switch in a whole new industry altogether. Bottomline is; when I was first faced with the obstacle I was shocked and I didn't know how to handle it. Knowing I had to look at a job switch, I was lost because I didnt go through it after I graduated like most people; it was literally my first job hunt. But I didnt give up and whilst transiting to my new job I helped out with an event to earn some extra moolah, experience and pass my time. Right now I'm still adapting to my new work environment so I will not go into saying how it was an amazing opportunity etc. BUT I just want to send a message out to never give up despite facing an obstacle in life and you never know when a switch might just be for the better. In some people's life, they lose their jobs and get depressed; thinking about how they're gonna support their family and carry on their lifestyle etc and sadly some even suicide. Please never be so negative. If you lose something, you pick yourself up and search for it. Suffering a pay cut and starting from scratch is not a shameful thing; it is shameful only if you sit back and do nothing about; waiting for fortune to strike. You make your own destiny. =]
LOVE
Yup as of November this year I was once again sexy free and single after being in a relationship for two whole years, my longest relationship to date; not that I've had many btw before you start judging me =p Our relationship wasnt smooth sailing but he decided to end it just as I came back from my Japan vacation and in the middle of my career transition. Honestly I was quite upset because too much was changing at one time. I was just picking myself up from a job switch and now I have to handle a relationship breakdown. I've always been a person who hated change and had to have everything planned out. So this was a rather huge blow to me because I didnt expect my boyfriend (ex) to decide to end things then; I had expected him to at least support through my career transition but oh well. Yes I was rather pissed and to think in my head things were gonna work out fine; we were gonna apply for a flat get married have kids blah blah. So girls please do not ever get depressed over a guy. I didnt shed a single tear. Yes it was frustrating and I simply hated having to answer to friends and family over the change in relationship status. Life goes on. Now I'm devoting more time and effort to building up my new career and spending a lot of time on family (and I admit a bit of unhealthy fangirling) but hey now there isnt a guy who gets jealous everytime the name "Eunhyuk" appears. (do not ask me why but all boyfriends seemed to have something against him and no one else despite my close contact with other male artists)
FAMILY
I love my family. There is nothing not to love about my family. I have like the coolest parents and the nicest brother (when we are not fighting haha) We watched Super Show 5 together; I have priority booking so I decided to make it a family affair...again. Anyway I guess the main highlight on this section would be our self-planned Japan trip!!! It didnt go smoothly but hell its Japan <3 enjoy="" facebook:="" on="" p="" pictures="">
https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10153390127670635.1073741830.789775634&type=3
Basically I just wanted to say; I LOVE MY FAMILY. They will always be there for you.
FANGIRLING
Yes it is an unhealthy part of my life. Haha. I'm not going to go into details because the links are all there on the left side of this page. My boss who supports his daughters' kpop obsession was telling me he thinks its fine to have something you are passionate about apart from school and work so yaye this is just a small part of me that keeps me happy =] My annual concert with priority booking took place again this year in July; Super Show 5. It sucked. And then I finally saw the 14th out of 15 members of Super Junior, yes it is Mr Kim Kibum. I won tickets to his fanmeet from 987FM so I was a happy girl =] Cause stingy me refused to pay so much for a boring event of one man haha. My next concert was Infinite OGS and fck it was good. I got some loving from most of the events especially Kim Myungsoo. It was a wow. It took place in the middle of my career switch when I was having a little down side in my life. I had a pimple outbreak and was feeling insecure being one of the oldest in the audience haha. L really cheered me up that night =] Last fangirling episode definitely has to be Shane Filan. I believe the whole world knows about my Westlife obsession by now haha so getting to have a comfortable dinner with him and enjoying the feeling of being a friend instead of a fan just felt amazing. Also the appearance in his video just put the cherry on top of the cake.
To end off this post: I was never one to believe in Feng Shui or horoscope readings etc but I've been having a rather bad year this year; which was predicted for one who was born in the year of the Snake so....BUT 2014 is expected to be a much better year for us so I'm hoping it is so hehe....I want my luck back! haha anyway; make the best out of whatever is given to you =]
Ok so now I'm off to welcome 2014 with my last fangirling event of the year....RAIN!!!!!!
I have been crazy over his dance abilities since his debut. God knows how many of his songs I've danced to. So I'm off to the concert now, wishing everyone a HAPPY NEW YEAR! Hope this post has been somewhat motivational or inspiring for you guys....Phoebe Feehily signing off for the final time in 2013 now...CIAO!
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